It's time-consuming .... and frustrating at times. I've gotten very bold at asking specifics. There are so many men AND women online who are MARRIED and just playing games. The FIRST thing I do....is ask if I can run a background check on them.....This weeds out alot....and doesn't cost me a dime. *laugh* I still do a thorough background on anyone I intend to meet. It tells you stuff like divorces, bankruptcy, criminal records, addresses, etc. You just can't be too safe!
Maybe I'm too cynical for all this.....but I would even check out someone my pastor introduced me to! LOL