If I were say.....a divorced woman out with this man that left the $20 and took off for the john, I'd be thinking,"Hell, I have done enough ordering and doing for the last one I was with, if bathroom boy can't wait to place an order, then to hell with this". Grab the $20 and run!
If that is how you thought, you'd have a lot of holdover resentments you'd be throwing at me at the slightest provocation.
Grade:F (for future? Maybe in a year or two, but definitely not now, if ever).
See how inexpensive it would be for me to find out that you were either not ready for a relationship (no clean slate there!) or simply not the woman for me.
See, I hate being blamed for all the things I did not do.
If you had done nothing but wait for my return, and explained your resentment, that'd have been a plus.
BTW, I live in North Dakota, and it would be eminently civilized to wait until I got to the bar to use the facility instead of just pulling off and urinating on the side of the road--it can be a long way between restrooms here. I'd have been on my best behaviour. (8^D)
ha ha ha ha ha