How can you 'work it out' with those who don't understand the basic principle behind the:
" Third (and Golden) Law; --- A stupid person is someone who causes damage to another person, or a group of people, without any advantage accruing to himself (or herself) -- or even with some resultant self-damage. "
The basics: -- Do onto others as you would have others do onto you, -- but carry a big stick to beat the stupids.
Corollary: Do onto others before they do onto you???