Restornu,
I tief'd this from another thread, seeing how you're in the big apple, you might like it.
Dear Abby:
My husband is a liar and a cheat. He has cheated on me from the very beginning, and when I confront him, he denies everything.
What's worse, everyone knows he cheats on me. It is so humiliating. Also, he's been out of work for the past four years and has not even looked for a new job since. All he does is smoke cigars, and cruise around with his pals, while I have to work to pay the bills.
Since our daughter went away to college, he does not even pretend to like me...and hints that I am a lesbian.
What should I do??
Clueless
Dear Clueless:
Grow up and dump him. For Pete's sake, you don't need him anymore...You're a United States Senator from New York, act like one.
Hilary really stands out in mind! =
LOL