I agree - I try to get my stuff done early, while everyone is still cooperating, and while everyone (including myself) is in a good mood. That or I go late at night when the kids are in bed and hubby is home to watch after them. But sometimes the middle of the afternoon is the only time. Plus I don't think my kids should be shut away from the world - they need to be able to interact with other people. While not perfect, they do pretty well considering their challenges. I do keep a tight rein on them when we are out and about, but sometimes they are just kids. As a parent, I do the best I can.
Severa, my twins that are autistic will be 8 next month - they are such delightful little beings!!! I wish you well with your boys!
Thanks for the kind words *s* I wish you and your family the best!