I never made that analogy, Mrs. Don-o. Look back in the thread. I think the comparison is off the money, but rather than make an issue of it I thought I'd just keep it light and answer truthfully a car question.
It's something to think about, though. I think for most women (not all, maybe, but most) it's the security of a good man's loyalty that makes it possible for her to experience real fulfillment and joy in sexual love. If a man says, "That's the one thing I choose to deprive you of. This is a test-drive" -- it's wrong. It hurts her heart. Hurts yours, too.
Sex is supposed to mean "we belong to each other." This is built into the language of the body. If you don't really belong to each other, it is a kind of untruth, because you are contradicting the message of your own flesh. Non-marital intercourse just drains the meaning out of sex.
I wish you well; I very sincerely do. I wish you true love, because it is an inestimable treasure.