{Blushing} You may be right. : ) Although I'd stated before, the thought of being with a "sensitive" i.e. liberal man just gives me the willies. I imagine they would weep & apologize for having male urges. Eeeewwww
Haha! I have said many times here on FR that it's not difficult to be an appealing man to women. Actually, it's easier now than it has ever been because the contrast has never been so great and a more complete male presence is more rare.
Ultimately, a man can't be a 'gentle-man' until the woman has seen him be more rough. As you said, a man who apologizes for his masculinity is a sexual dud, and he should be. As long as a male undermines his masculine presence with weakness, women will pass him by. I don't blame the women for that at all.