My mother died in hospice here at our home. It was 2 1/2 half years she lived with us. The only way I could survive was to attend a healing mass once a week for over a year. It was the best decision I ever made. God is awesome, and he does heal.
My dad died with hospice twenty years ago. I know that they offer counselling, as does my church - through Stephen Ministry. The healing ministry looks interesting and the names of the leaders look familiar, I just can't remember the context right now. I also have this text following me around right now.
2 Corinthians 12:9-12 (NRSV) [The Lord] said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for power is made perfect in weakness." So, I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me. Therefore I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities for the sake of Christ; for whenever I am weak, then I am strong.