I may have mentioned it before, but we buy our beef by the whole cow...
see, here's the difference. Patton lives in ....the gated community (RME).... surrounded by a large extended family and there is much intermixing and intermingling. T5, you, and i, and most others here, live our lives more individually, without extended family around, and in this day and age, friends stopping by without calling is considered somewhat rude. totally different lifestyles. he also does squat at home, so what skin is it off his nose if his wife has to entertain his family?