Since when does short hair=butch? I love my hair shorter. I used to have blonde curly hair past my shoulder blades, but when I had kids, I decided it was too much effort. Best thing I ever did with my hair. I felt a lot more confident too. I think a lot of women use long hair as a crutch or something to hide behind.
"but when I had kids, I decided it was too much effort."
Exactly. You don't care as much about it. For a young unmarried woman, that's not a good sign/doesn't mean the same thing.
I got your back Aggie Mama. My wife has short hair and its veddy sexy!