That's good to know, actually. I've been the kind of person that likes to make everyone happy and keep the red-tape to a minimum, but that has been abused in this case. I feel grateful to be on the health plan and to have this work to do, but also feel used. If I'm going to put in the kind of effort they demand, I'll go over to Micro$oft and at least get some reward for it.
My wife is a full-time housewife by mutual choice. She will also homeschool when the time comes.
Check in your state but the default in some states is that you own the code, they own a license.
On the other hand you might not want to own the code...unless their competitors would also like to buy a license. But that is burning a bridge so it's a drastic step.