Alot more women have these fantasies than you think. They don't want to REALLY be kindapped and raped, but its a bit kinky for them, the loss of control. I can tell you that nearly all of the women I have ever know have been at least slightly turned on by the thought of engaging in "safe" bondage...
I have a socio-biological theory about it. Basically, just watch other animals mate, males tend to dominate the females, I think it is somewhat programmed into them.
I wonder if this is flame bait. I dont intend it as such, but whatever...
"safe" bondage...is this oxy-moron?