[F.J. Mitchell]

In the spirit of fair play, I respectfully abstain.

They are probably all good kids, and how many young couples just starting couldn't use $6,000.00?

[Jeff Head]

That's fine...your call. Of course they could all use it...but only one of the couples will get it and since pocat and squantos are the ones asking, I figured it might as well be their friends.

...and they're getting closer too.

[pocat]

They are probably all good kids, and how many young couples just starting couldn't use $6,000.00?

Good point. I know my wife and I could've used it 13 years ago.

Perhaps that's why I'm so willing to help this young couple out - because we struggled so much in the beginning of our marriage. Hell, we're just now planning our first real vacation this Spring. Maybe it will make up for the honeymoon we never could take. Maybe we'll get a little rest from working 3 jobs between the two of us.

To be honest, I have other motives too - a hug and maybe a dance from the bride. (With my wife's permission of course!)