Good post. Very needed around here. thanks
:-) As you can probably read in many of my posts as of late, I probably bash as bad as the next guy... I just think that it would be a nice to give it a day off... We certainly have plenty of time to pick it up again tomorrow. But for now, and I'm speaking only for me here, I was so thankful when I found you guys... I found a group that, in general shared the same values, views and opinions as I do (The large majority of the time, anyway).
This issue has really torn us apart in many ways, but I think we'll definitely get through it. In many ways I can look at FR as a family (dysfunctional as it may be, however... :) And I think, as a family we suffered a loss when Terri died... I just thought that we can take ONE DAY to kind of "be with our family" to mourn her loss with beating the snot out of each other and all the rest that bear the blame. That was the meaning of the thread.... not ignore what happened, cry and get over it, which I think some who've posted to me feel that I meant.
Trust me, I'll probably go back to pis*ing some people off tomorrow, but today I'd rather think and pray for Terri and her mom and dad. Those who say they'll do that too, but will not stop lashing out even for a day because those who deserve blame need to "be damned to hell" and on and on and on can't fully direct their heart toward Terri and her parents. It's not possible to be whole-hearted in one thing whle part of you is elsewhere.... Just my thoughts... :)