Sides? Winning? What the heck are you talking about? No one wins in a situation like this. The best thing to come out of this is the fact that people are being much more careful in planning for their futures.
Here here. And DO NOT take choosing a spouse as lightly as most do today. Choosing the person you are going to marry is a serious and life altering decision. Obviously.
I am thankful everyday that I have a wonderful husband who I can trust to make life or death decisions for me and who has my best interest at heart.
Many make look twice at their choice of a life mate.