1. Gentle, caring, but firm teachers
2. A wealth of stimulating materials
3. Unstructured, self-directed learning (There are dozens of didactic Montessori-specific puzzles and games for the children to explore on their own.)
4. Structured learning (writing, reading, math, art, gym, science)
5. Unstructured outdoor play
6. An emphasis on practical life, academic, and social skills
7. Good, friendly kids
8. A firm stand on disruptive play, noise, and behavior
9. Progress reports
Montessori stresses independence. Independence requires self-control. Montessori gives the child environment where he can learn to be independent by making his own decisions (what will I play with today?), by taking care of his own needs (getting his own snack), and by following his own interests. A child who cannot control his impulses will not be benefited by this environment; he needs more structure. Montessori provides some, but probably not enough, for that type of child's personality. You know your child.
If your Montessori lacks structure, and has degenerated into a free-for-all, it won't benefit your child. Interview a couple of schools in your area and talk to your neighbors about where they sent their children. Don't worry about getting your child into a school. If your child hates one school, you can always try to enroll in another one; children are always moving around and there are mid-year openings.
One negative about Montessori: Unless your school pulls from predominantly one town, your child's friends will be from many different towns, and will not be in kindergarten together (if you send your child to public school).
Thanks so much for your replies. It certainly is enlightening to hear about so many different experiences.
I am just beginning to THINK about preschools. Clearly I am not ready to jump into this pool yet. My son is only 2, and I know that it will be a year or more before we even try to enroll him.
As always, I like to have as much information as possible to make an educated decision, especially since it will effect my son's life.
I will respond privately to a couple of you who invited me to do so (for more info on other types of schools). Thanks to all who took the time to reply!
Regards,
Leigh Ann