In the first place, if I said any thing like that, she'd have whupped my butt.
In the second place, you don't get to be married for almost 40 years by missing too many opportunities.
Believe me, marriage was/is my salvation and my nemesis, but I ignore the downside because the upside is so much better.
I think she sticks around to see what I'll do next and because, (she says), I make her laugh.
Cyber usually has me in stitches laughing. I'm more of the straight "woman," a la Gracie Allen. Then he gets laughing. I couldn't get a metaphor correctly if my life depended on it. LOL!
Oh, I'm so happy for you!!!