Yes, it does. Now, it won't make her a good person, nor will it make the husband a good person. It's a two way street, and many of the most bitter people I've seen here see trouble coming from only one direction.
For me, marriage was all my faults and failings magnified.
If you marry wrong for both of you, it is like a cauldron where all bad things distill and both parties begin to look and act like McBeth's witches.
I don't want to marry again because I don't want to see that woman I hated in the mirror.
Yes, you're right. The point I wanted to make is that our modern concept of marriage is off. No fault divorce and promiscuity have twisted what marriage is. I wasn't intending to put all the blame on the women.