You're kidding, right? You accept what Cabaj says without questioning it because it confirms your prejudices, and then you tell me I'm not being open-minded? I mean, you know what a critical mindset is, right? If someone says something, you doubt it, evenespecially if you want to believe it.
What did I put in your mouth, anyway?
No, I'm not kidding. And you keep missing the point. Cabaj was biased in favor of homosexuality and made an observation about what he saw occurring in the homosexual community. Deal with it.