First off, it looks like I owe you an apology. I was assuming you were a he but it looks like you are a she (unless you're one of those kinds of he's)
Not much into Meg Ryan movies so not sure what you're referencing but I do recall that one Seinfield episode where Elaine informed Jerry that they were all fake.
I'm possibly one of "those" kinds of guys, not that there's anything wrong with that.