Not to worry, I've appointed myself FR Manner Queen. The rules are as follows:
1. If you must be nice, do it in the Smokey Back Room. It won't get you anywhere but it will provide me with immense enjoyment while watching.
2. All other areas, especially Religion (where in theory you should be the nicest but in reality you get to be the nastiest) are free-for-alls.
Completely off topic, but since we're all wasting time here anyway, did you happen to see on the news that the baby in that picture from yesterday was alive? It had floated on a mattress for 18 hours -- all by itself.
Good advice...