"The dog was chasing it's tail."
The dog was chasing it is tail?
a friend of mine graduated from a journalism program at a state university. he made the error frequently that you speak of--it's and its.
Who and whom
Who is SUBJECTIVE
Whom is OBJECTIVE
Using the two terms properly is not difficult.
Just isolate the phrase/clause using who or whom and replace who or whom with a name, such as "Bob." Then, say it as a sentence, which often requires changing the word order. If Bob is subjective, use who. If objective, use whom.
Example:
I wonder who is going to the party.
Next step:
I wonder Bob is going to the party.
Isolate: "Bob is going to the party."
Since Bob is the subject there, it should be who.
Next example:
You are dating whom?
In sentence form, it stays the same....you are dating whom.
You are dating Bob.
Thus, since Bob is objective, we use "whom."