"Stop getting too stoned."
Sorry. I see you wrote that he should stop getting too stoned, not stop getting stoned.
I can cop to that. Getting too stoned is not good, although it is pretty hard to get too stoned unless one has come across some really killer shit or one has eaten too many hash brownies.
Not locking the door at night is inexcusable and very dangerous. Forgetting to do certain things on occasion is understandable, forgetting ALL the time to do things not so much, forgetting occasionally to do things which must be done ALL the time is unacceptable. Bottom line is one's ingestion of various delecti cannot exceed the level which endangers ones family.