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Being organized is not a trait most people are born with. Regarding things like lights out, garbage out, etc. you need to establish a routine. Place reminder notes on the light switch, the door, etc. Make lists of things you need to do every day. MAKE yourself go through the list and do those things every single day. It will take you about 30 days to establish a habit of doing these things.

I also recommend counseling for both of you. Sounds to me that while you are not organized, she is not patient. Both are attributes necessary for you two to get along.

Call your pastor for a referral for counseling. This is NOT something to be ashamed of, but rather soomething that will help you both to have a successful marriage.

My prayers are for both of you, that you can overcome this bad patch and have a long and happy life together.