Dear WineGuy,
"They just weren't born with that automatic cut-off switch that I was born with,..."
That's a good way to put it. My "cut-off switch" is around 2 glasses of wine, or two beers. I get into the third one and I ask myself, "Why am I drinking this?"
The way I've always thought about it is that after a couple of drinks, I lose my taste for it.
sitetest
If I'm tempted to exceed two drinks, I have learned to ask myself, "Do I really want to do this?" The answer is always "no".
I think alcohol does something different for some people. I have a couple of family members with drinking problems --- alcohol seems to give them something I've never experienced. I can have a couple drinks --- but they never make me feel better or think I'm happier or more popular, or make me forget about the bills. It's easy to choose a cup of coffee over alcohol when coffee gives a more positive effect.
1-2 drinks
have ALREADY started neutralizing, deadening, putting to sleep
THE BRAIN'S JUDGMENT CENTER
which determines when something is too much; the car ahead is too close etc.