I think I hear what you're saying. I was in a business where 40-pound livers were a badge of pride, and several of us became jake-legs. The ones who blamed the boss or the clients still are. The ones who realized that no one forced a pop down their throats don't have hangovers any more, and as I said, it makes life a
lot easier.In the final analysis, you're in charge, nobody else is, and you can punch that hangman in the nose anytime you want to. Good luck!
In the final analysis, you're in chargeMy problems are to a large extent due to 'me' being in charge.
When I humble myself and surrender control to my Creator, real solutions appear.
I do the leg work, but leave the over-all plan to One wiser than me.