My neighbors granddaughter has had 5 children and is only 20. She gave the third one up for adoption to a lesbian couple here in town.
Meanwhile my husband and I are trying to conceive for 8 years and she is having one every 14 months! I was just a little frustrated about that. Thankfully God saw fit to finally give me one. I think it takes alot to realize that someone else could better provide for a child.
Congratulations on your new daughter!
My first husband and I tried for 4 years to have a child. Tests, tests and more tests. Love making became sex since there was a goal other than loving each other. It broke our marriage even after we did finally have a child. It made us too distant from each other and resentful about whose "fault" it was that we had such a hard time becoming parents.
Thanks for your input about a note to my niece. I just wondered if anyone thought for some reason I hadn't thought of that it would be a BAD idea ~ :o)