Maybe you should've prayed for a job....
Sorry I did have paragraphs in this but do not know how to fix.
Did you pass the bar? Just curious.
I will pray for your situation. I don't know if you're aware but there are many marriage restoration ministries on the web. Two that are very successful are:
http://www.rejoiceministries.org
http://www.restorem.org
Whether the marriage continues or not, try to maintain the same understanding spirit you have about her now. She's obviously been through a lot, and will need a friend who understands.