[tacticalogic]

See #49. I think the fact that we won't find out in a weekend is the main reason why I've changed my mind.

Cats are normally social animals, and I think they'd work it out eventually, in their own way and on their own terms (they are cats, after all).

If we end up getting a new cat, I want to see it before it comes home, to judge its personality and temperament. And I'm not thrilled about a long-haired cat, which this kitten is.

Sound like you have reservations already. If you're not comfortable with the situation, the cats probably won't be, either. Probably best to let this one go.

[wimpycat]

Yeah, I have some reservations, but if I did do it, I'd do it right and make it work. I've been sitting here wondering if it's just me, and simple unwillingness to change our present situation, but at the same time it would be better if the poor kitty wasn't passed around so often and could settle down in a home where there were no misgivings (or older cats to worry about). Now if it comes down to us or the regular county shelter, well, then I'd take it, but there are still some other options at this point. Gosh, I wish I didn't feel so guilty about it.