I do not have any admiration for them but like any enemy, I respect their power and the demographics they enjoy to our peril and sorrow.
We cannot beat them by withdrawing, we must engage relentlessly but to do that we have to comport ourselves in a way reasonable people will have a right to expect.
I actually partly agree with you, about how we comport ourselves, because I've seen some threads that gave me pause...but on the other hand, some of the posters going overboard were newbie trolls trying to make FR look bad.
I'm going back a year here, when I remember those threads...