I don't feel vulnerable. Someone else's kids aren't my problem. Having kids you cannot afford and then expecting peolple to want to help you is not responsible.
1. Shame on irresponsible parents who burden society with their issue.
2. Shame on members of society who ignore these children (who have such bad fortune to be born to a these irresponsible parents) as if they did not exist and thereby ensure they will likely burden society for their entire lives.
If your neighbor pumps untreated sewage into your community's river you can pretend that it does not effect you and that you have no obligation to address the sitation.
Just like when your neighbor introduces un-cared-for children into society you can pretend that it does not effect you and that you have no obligation to address the sitation.
What a silly attitude. Both uncompassionate and disastrous.