I tried online dating and find the biggest problem are married men. I'll bet women misrepresented themselves in the looks department. A lot of women are afraid they'll get rejected for being heavy or whatever but I've never done that.
My husband met one woman online who sounded very nice, so they met for lunch. She had lied about her weight; he said that she had to be in access of 300 pounds. It made a difference to him because he's very active and likes to get out and do things. She could barely walk. Didn't you go and meet someone over Christmas. CA maybe? How did it go?
Actually, I've been pleasantly surprised by how the gals on match.com look.
The problem many of them have is their personality and their brain, not their looks.