I gave him a half hearted swat to the backside and mumbled some joke. Mom impressed on me the fact that you don't intentionally make someone feel bad so deep that I was in a daze. Did get out of there pretty quickly.
I figure someday I'll bump into the right one. Hopefully I'll be aware enough to realize it and not let a good thing pass by.
I know a few people - male and female - who have been quite successful using match.com. They aren't all twenty years old either. A woman I work with met her new husband that way. She was a widow and he was too (widower?) and they got married in about 6 months. Another person I work with is in a relationship with someone she met on e-harmony. They apparently specialize in Christian matchmaking. The one negative I have heard about dating services is that many of the men are married and pretend to be single.