well to be honest, she irked me when i heard she made a BIG to-do that they were NOT a Christian band. It was ambiguous enough that they were being used on christian websites etc. But if she felt strongly enough that she wanted to disassociate herself with that, then that irked me. she is sleeping with the seether guy now, apparently and dumped the one that is in evanescence with her. bad form to sleep with bandmates, IMO.
Case in point : Fleetwood Mac.