Just a tad too interfering.
My dear kind fellow Freeper (you should see some other replies I've gotten), there is a saying "nothing ventured, nothing gained".
At the very least, all 3 of them would appreciate our care for them, and what's the worst that could happen? They could all get a laugh out of it.
I agree. This idea would just be pouring salt in the wound.
"No doubt, this is coming from a wonderful impulse, deep inside you, but this is wrong. Let's have the wisdom to leave the choosing of Rush's soulmate to him, shall we?
Just a tad too interfering."
I'm in one hundred and fifty percent agreement with this.