The clothing war goes no better for guys: thank goodness for finding essentialapparel.com who still stock the traditional OceanPacific shorts for men. I refuse to dress like some wigger-gangsta out looking for a ho.
L -- you guys do have it easier, altho I totally get your aversion to crotches that fall between the knees and ankles.
M & BWB- I turned that breast feeding thing off - I dunno, it doesn't appeal to me. As a wee babe, I'm told I used to pitch my bottle outta the crib on a regular basis - I've never been a fan of milk, mom's or otherwise. I'm a fan of Nestle's Quick and it hasn't hurt me a bit! (grin)