Oh dear. Dona sure wouldn't have liked my cakes would she?
I think the cupcakes sound darlin! And I'm with you on the flowers too. PQ's mom is a wonder at flower arrangement. She and I went to a craft store about a month before the wedding and I just showed her what silk flowers I liked and she went to work. They were gorgeous! I loved 'em! I don't know what the big deal is about that.
I go with the 2 cake idea cause it's fun to have 2 flavors of cake. I don't like cake much myself. So, if there are 2 at least I get to pick the better of stuff I don't care for to start with. You know, with that cupcake idea, you could even have more then "2" different choices! :-)
She is doing a great job on all the stuff I just don't know how to have an opinion about. I hope she is enjoying doing that for me because she wants to, and isn't finding me to be just hopeless.