I am sorry I brought it up, really. My intent was not to get anyone to feel like they have to throw feel-goods at me. I know I have the body I have earned.
But I do object to thin people throwing the word pudgy around when in the presence of actual pudgy people. And that is not meant only for 2J.... Sonya is also talking about how "fat" she is getting at 9 weeks of pregnancy that is not even showing. How can she say that to ~me~? I am always sensitive about that stuff but I am moreso now because my wedding dress is gonna be tight. And it isn't a 6, it isn't an 8, and it isn't a 14.
I'm not being hard on myself, I am being real. And if I was a better person I would do something about it and stop sniping at you guys about it. I'll at least stop sniping at you guys.... OK? - Sorry :~D
can I still say I think you are beautiful? I am positive you will be the most lovely woman at your wedding! :-)
I love ya...and that's not throwing any feel-good at ya...I think you're the greatest and feel terrible that I upset you. Please forgive me sis!