[mean lunch lady]

It's funny how that happens, when a cat turns up like that. My husband and I had decided after the loss of our 18 year old cat, that we were not going to get another cat. Then a few weeks later, one came to our front porch and would not leave. He said, dont anybody feed him or he'll never go away. Guess who was the one who finally broke down and fed him? That cat was with us for 16 years. He just decided to be our cat and that was it.

[MEG33]

I always think I'll never have another have another cat I love so much,so I just wait until I am reluctantly drawn in.They are all different.My last was so dear and a great companion.

The cat before this one,a large male, died at 15years and I was in deep grief.Never again,I said!He was the only cat I had really planned on,picked out of a litter that was born to a friend's cat.The rest have been cats that were no longer wanted that I managed to adopt.