I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this. whatever happened to love and commitment? Such a shame for your daughter and her children. Y'all certainly have my prayers.
Look at the Reuters photo on this article in the Jordan Times, and the name of the photographer.
http://www.jordantimes.com/wed/index.htm Very advantageous timing for him, don't you think? And I wonder if the masked attackers really are "Iraqis" as identified.... or Muslim mercenaries from all over the middle east?