I would just bet you haven't. Remember the kissy kissy thing is reserved only for the 'best' of friends. LOL. I avoid that if at all possible. Haven't been kissy kissied in a long time. To forestall that, I simply place a hand on their arm, lean toward them, step back and admire their dress, hair, general appearance, etc., and comment on it. :) They feel greeted, special, and unmussed. :)I then comment on their home, child, car, tennis game, golf game, whatever they are into and go on to the next wonderful person. :)