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Thanks to ALL of you for your prayers. And PE I'm very happy that your situation turned out so well. I know that God can make Good out of bad and in the end I cannot see ANY Judge disrupting these childrens routine that they have been in for 4 years. They normally don't do that. Now that there is a child in your life can you just imagine what an already vindictive situation would be like if the child were made the pawn? It rips you up.

I hate to scare you Lynn, but never trust a judge, especially female thinking they will lean towards the mother. I have a story I will tell you..and make it short.

My daughter went thru a similar situation, with the husband and kids.. The judge made her get a job to prove she could provide for the three kids and herself, while the no gooder collected phoney disability for years.

She got the job, got the apartment.. and you know what the 'lady' judge said after all that? Your husbands home all day, he can better care for the kids. HE DOESN'T WORK!!!

She worked..and supported herself like the judge told her. He never wanted the younger girl, he didn't really bond with her, (lol) but he got the two oldest. The second to the oldest left him as soon as she was old enough, and the second one later during college.

So eventually she got them back but had to pay child support to the low-life that never worked a day in his life.

I hate to tell you, but don't depend on the courts to do the 'right' thing today, they are easily bought.. Either by their liberal agenda, or who knows what else..

Fair warning, if it was me I would go into that courtroom LOADED for Bear..