[gaijin]

Herold is turning her disgust into a documentary, Bachelor, 34, which captures her mother's urging her toward a relationship ("He's Catholic and Republican, but it's nothing you can't change")

Two reasons why white guys are losing interest in white women:

1. Guys don't want women who feel a need to be like guys any more than women don't date men who act like women.

2. Lots of guys don't want to date a women who gives off strong early signs of wanting to radically change them.

[Elric@Melnibone]

Lots of guys don't want to date a women who gives off strong early signs of wanting to radically change them.

The difference between men and women:

Women marry men expecting them to change but they don't.

Men marry women expecting them not to change but they do.

[Xenalyte]

1. Guys don't want women who feel a need to be like guys . . .

Oh, I don't know about that . . . I'm not a girly-girl by any stretch, and Bacon can testify to the fact that Xena's Guy seems to like me just fine. ;)

[G Larry]

50 & still single.
So here are a few gems.

A woman marries a man thinking she can change him;
A man marries a woman thinking she will never change.

Foundation for a successful relationship:
- a true friendship,
- similar values,
- mutual trust,
- mutual respect.
NOT
- similar interest,
- communication,
- good sex.

It isn't that the later 3 aren't important, it's that they are dynamic,
and because of that constant change, cannot form a foundation.

Test it!
Do you know of any successful relationships that don't have the
first 4 characteristics going for them?