The second thing you need to do is understand that YOU ARE GOING TO MAKE IT.
You will not die, you will not break, but you are going to cry and you are going to hurt like hell. Then, you are going to get over it because your life is going to get better. For real. I know, because it happened to me.
I am praying for you right now. From your lofty vantage point in the future, you are looking back at yourself and remembering this moment:
"If only I knew then, how precious my life would be, if only I could have seen how God himself was holding me during that time; if only I had known that God himself was leading me, with my little lambs, to a pasture He Himself had chosen...
You will look back at this moment, and you will fall on your knees and praise God for His never ending love...