We sent our Son to a small, Christian high school.
None of the girls in his class would have anything to do with the boys in his class.
The boys were not potential husbands to the girls, they were merely competition.
A really unhealthy atmosphere that was encouraged by the parents of the girls.
My two cents for your son. Seek a balance among the following, when you look at a girl:
- chemistry
- mental
- spiritual
You will have to work at holding on to the reins of chemistry.
Do not worry about, “She loves me, she loves me not.”
Keep moving and seek adventure with a girl (activities, sports, travel), so you get to spend time together and see what she is like.
Do not remain stuck, back at, “She loves me, she loves me not.”
Ignore pressures from contemporaries and people who will pester and tease you about “sexual accompishments.”
Be careful, because many girls know that they have power over you:
- chemistry
- “he said, she said”
Some girls will test their powers. Some will lie about you.
So, approach, and be around, but with caution.
The law of the land is not on your side. Be close to Jesus, doing what you can figure, that Jesus would suggest.