After having been 100% invisible to women all my life, I am beginning to think it has been a blessing in disguise.
I agree. For men, being married has its blessings if you are in a good marriage. However, being single also has its blessings for men and, I believe, more than women.
As a single man, you are responsible for yourself, but you can unapologetically live the life you want, regardless of how others think you should live.
I believe that there is someone for everyone, but you have to pray for it. I’ve only been married once, but she was my fourth fiancĂ©. The first three broke up with me. I always prayed for a wife that was: good, intelligent, even natured and attractive (In that order). It took 13 yrs of dating, but we found each other. She likes to try to exert more control than she should and I like to escape the reservation. We’ve been married for over 35 yrs. In our own way it works.