I believe that there is someone for everyone, but you have to pray for it. I’ve only been married once, but she was my fourth fiancé. The first three broke up with me. I always prayed for a wife that was: good, intelligent, even natured and attractive (In that order). It took 13 yrs of dating, but we found each other. She likes to try to exert more control than she should and I like to escape the reservation. We’ve been married for over 35 yrs. In our own way it works.
Inspite of my training and preparation I never was able to afford a family so by default most women are going to reject a guy like that outright.
I am 56 but apparently in the lingo of younger generations, I am in street terms what they call a “black pilled omega males”. It is lower than beta.
Guys in that genre do not ever secure marriage and rarely even girlfriends for that matter.