If I were a guy, I probably would have been fired 20 times by now for making people uncomfortable.
I don’t consider my work week a success unless I’ve made some idiot “uncomfortable.”
I’ve been asked in the past about comments I supposedly overheard when some woman alleged harassment against a guy I had no issue with.
My response has been along the lines of, “I don’t remember hearing anything like that, but if I had, I would not have thought anything of that comment because it sounds rather harmless and even flattering to me. Besides, I’m not easily bent out shape like Karen and tend not to misconstrue situations like she does, so I probably just didn’t notice anything.”
Back in the 90’s we had an older lady who worked with us, almost like a mom. She’d call us Honey or Sweetie & thought nothing of it. One day my super liberal female boss overheard her calling me Honey. When I refused to contact Hr, she threatened to do it on my behalf. Told her to go ahead but if HR called me I would tell them I didn’t feel harrassed. The original Karen.