Even natural children sometimes go through stages of rebellion with their parents. When they offer an olive branch a parent should take it instead of taking the “revenge” route. Their relationship will never improve if they do the tit-for-tat route.
This was not an olive branch. It was a demand that her father's wife drop everything and come take care of her.
Some people have Welcome stamped on their foreheads.
Others got smart and washed that sucker clean.