[Harmless Teddy Bear]

That is not blaming the victim. That happened in post three.

This is blaming the victim's mother for something she has total control over.

She can at any time remove the child from that situation as any number of parents have done.

She is preferring to rely on the system. Which in my opinion is stupid.

There was another mother that did that and her son ending up carrying a knife for self defense which resulted in his being arrested.

Do not put your children in impossible situations.

You will not like the solutions they come up with.

[bk1000]

“Do not put your children in impossible situations.
You will not like the solutions they come up with”

Wisdom.